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No Minivan Shame: 6 Reasons A Minivan is the Best Thing Ever

August 6, 2018 by Maria Smith 72 Comments

Don't let minivan shame stop you from driving the minivan you need in your life

You can love a minivan! I do! Photo: Maria Smith

It’s true. I have no minivan shame. None.

I believe a minivan is one of the best family cars for the money hands down. All those articles on how to be cool despite your minivan are lost on me. I Resisted (with a capital R) the minivan life until after I had my third child. Eight years later I’m now all about this minivan life. I’m ride or die for my Honda Odyssey. I am ashamed of a lot of things but there’s no minivan shame in my game.

Minivan shame is something akin to the cool kid lunch table in middle school. All the cool kids had those name brand chinos and Hostess cupcakes instead of homemade cookies. They had a new backpack every year and the cutest earrings when your mom still wouldn’t let you get your ears pierced.

Now those cool kids are grown, have kids and have 4-door family cars. And they try to make fun of your minivan life. Well you know what? I wasn’t one of the cool kids back then and I refuse to fit into the Prius-driving cool kid crowd as an adult. A minivan is one of the best family cars for the money because it just makes my life easier!

Check out why the Toyota Sienna may be the family car for you.

I have driven a three different Honda Odysseys and have test-driven some fantastic other minivans like the Chrysler Pacifica and the Toyota Sienna (which I found to be the minivan to buy if you don’t really want to buy a minian).

I’m now a bit of a minivan snob, so I stick with my Odyssey. And while I do love whipping around town in the latest, top of the line speedsters from Lexus or Ford, I cannot and will not give up this minivan life. Here are the reasons why I have no minivan shame.

Who needs minivan shame when you can keep the whole family happy for your next road trip?

You don’t love my minivan? That’s ok. I do. Photo: Maria Smith

6 Reasons I Have No Minivan Shame

1. I don’t care what you think.

The biggest reason I don’t have minivan shame is because I’m grown. There comes a time in every person’s life when they realize the energy it takes to keep up with everyone around them just isn’t worth it. Trying to squeeze my family into one of the cute, hip SUVs with a third row as an afterthought is not worth it to me just to earn some cool points.

I care about global warming and the impact of race and class on our sociopolitical system and if there is going to be a remake of Living Single. But if you don’t like my car? Oh well.

2. My sliding doors never dings the car next to me.

When I review sedans or SUVs, I find myself repeating things to my kids. “Watch out!” “Open the door slowly!” “Be careful getting out!” “Did you just hit that car?”

When I’m driving my Honda Odyssey, I never, ever have to say these things. Also, my kids can shimmy out of even the tightest parking spots. Bonus! I love family cars that don’t cause my insurance to go up.

Who needs minivan shame when you can have entertained kids?

Minivans have tons of room, and many have extras that keep your kids entertained and not bothering you! Photo: Maria Smith

3. I can fit all my kids (and yours too).

With four kids, a minivan made sense for us. We can pile in and everyone has room to breathe. We can also fit several double strollers (though we don’t need to anymore), four car seats (though we are now down to two), and we even have room for $300+ worth of groceries (done it).

When the moms at basketball practice hop out of their trendy family cars and condescendingly tell me how they could “never drive a minivan,” I just smile. I know that at some point this season they will be late or need to leave early, and my minivan will be the way their Johnny and Joey, and even Sally too, will get home that day. Even with all my kids buckled in, I can still fit three more. Boom!

Read why the Honda Odyssey is a fantastic family road trip car

4. Automatic door opening and closing makes me a hit in the carpool line.

The thing I love most about my minivan is the sliding doors. I love that they slide instead of swing open. I love that they open and close automatically at the touch of a button. And I love how they can help me move through car pool or any other drop off scenario super fast.

For someone who lives her life cutting it close, this is huge. I have no minivan shame when I can practically come to a rolling stop when letting kids out of the car. (Ok. Ok. I actually completely stop, but my door is open when I do and it hasn’t fully closed when I peel off.)

Don't let minivan shame stop you from driving the minivan you need in your life. It is one of the best family cars for the money too!

The Toyota Sienna is one of the minivans that gives families exactly what they need. Photo: Maria Smith

5. No one steals a minivan

Nope. No one steals a mom-mobile. They steal the cool kid family cars. They don’t even steal my dozens of fingerprint-smudged movies in my glove box or the ‘just-in-case-they-get-hangry’ food I keep in the trunk. I think criminals look at my car and think it is definitely too uncool to steal. I’m OK with that.

6. A minivan is one of the best family cars for the money

Probably the best reason to have no minivan shame is because you have embraced that you are a parent and you have to be good stewards of your money. It took me having 3 kids in under 3 years for me to realize I was fully, unambiguously, and unapologetically living this mommy life.

For me, this season of life with young children means I’m rolling deep with my swagger wagon. Having 4 kids means I need a car that entertains my kids while getting us from place A to place B.

It means being smart about fuel efficiency. A big family also means I need family cars that will last me and have awesome resale value. Minivans are really the best family cars for the money. Go ahead and adult!

Don't let minivan shame stop you from driving the minivan you need in your life. It is one of the best family cars for the money too!

Don’t let the cool kids stop you from driving the minivan you need in your life. Photo: Maria Smith

Is the Honda Odyssey the best family car ever? Scotty Reiss thinks so!

At some point, I might buy one of the different family cars out there. However, it won’t be because of minivan shame. I can see shedding a tear over giving up my Odyssey actually. The minivan life has been good to me. And if you’re behind me in the car pool line or parked next to me at Target or need me to pick up your kids from swim team, it’s been good to you too. You’re welcome.

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Maria Smith

Maria Smith is the founder of MamaliciousMaria.com, one of the top parenting, travel and auto blogs in the country. A member of the Greater Atlanta Automotive Media Association, Maria is Married with 4 kids aged 4 to 10. In her pre-baby life she was a TV producer at The Oprah Winfrey Show, among others, and these days, aside from motherhood and writing, plays a mean game of tennis, travels constantly and covets finding fun things for moms to do.
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Comments

  1. AvatarAbigail Gibson says

    August 6, 2018 at 12:19 pm

    I am not fond of the gas mileage mine gets but it does the job.

    Reply
  2. AvatarMargaret Smith says

    August 6, 2018 at 1:17 pm

    Child car seat safety to me means that the seat is put into the vehicle correctly and the size is also proper for your child. In addition, that you follow the best way your child should be sitting based on their age.

    Reply
  3. AvatarMargaret Smith says

    August 6, 2018 at 1:20 pm

    I love that minivans helps fit all my family comfortably.

    Reply
  4. AvatarDandi D says

    August 6, 2018 at 6:21 pm

    Car seat safety is so important to me because my children mean the world to me and they are my priority, so I will protect them any way I can!

    Reply
  5. AvatarDandi D says

    August 6, 2018 at 6:23 pm

    We love our Chrysler minivan–it is so convenient and family friendly!

    Reply
  6. AvatarCasey Garvey says

    August 6, 2018 at 8:31 pm

    To me a carseat can mean life or death! An accident that your in while driving that was just a small fender bender could mean the loss of your child without the proper carseat!

    Reply
  7. AvatarCasey Garvey says

    August 6, 2018 at 8:35 pm

    My top stroller requirements are fast and easy fold/unfold! I also want one that is durable, yet lightweight and that has a place to put odds and ends such as a diaper bag or purse.

    Reply
  8. AvatarEllie Wright says

    August 6, 2018 at 8:39 pm

    Car child seat safety is of the utmost importance. We count on it to keep the most precious things in our lives safe and sound.

    Reply
  9. AvatarEllie Wright says

    August 6, 2018 at 8:41 pm

    I love mini-vans. I usually have half of a baseball team to tote around and a mini-van is a huge help.

    Reply
  10. AvatarDandi D says

    August 6, 2018 at 9:03 pm

    I really like that you can attach a baby carrier seat to the stroller!

    Reply
  11. Avatarkathy Persons says

    August 7, 2018 at 9:41 am

    It will can and does save a life ask me how I know~

    Reply
  12. Avatarkathy Persons says

    August 7, 2018 at 9:44 am

    My favorite was a dk green with a tiny gold pin stripe~

    Reply
  13. AvatarBekki Lindner says

    August 7, 2018 at 2:05 pm

    I loved having a minivan because it was SO easy to get in and out of when my kiddos were small.

    Reply
  14. AvatarDandi D says

    August 7, 2018 at 4:26 pm

    We love the stow and go option in our minivan!

    Reply
  15. AvatarAnne Higgins says

    August 7, 2018 at 10:14 pm

    I appreciate all the ways we can have safety in a vehicle, especially for the young that can’t help themselves. I have appreciated the ways car seats have improved over the years.

    Reply
  16. AvatarCassandra D says

    August 7, 2018 at 10:52 pm

    I want to be smart about the fuel efficiency and in the resale value later on.

    Reply
  17. AvatarCassandra D says

    August 7, 2018 at 10:53 pm

    Seat safety means saving lives to me.

    Reply
  18. Avatarbarbg says

    August 8, 2018 at 8:58 am

    Most important thing in the world for parents thank goodness mine are grown with new babies of their own.

    Reply
  19. AvatarCarol Moore says

    August 8, 2018 at 9:39 am

    Child safety means providing a safe environment and putting prevention measures into practice.

    Reply
  20. AvatarEllie Wright says

    August 8, 2018 at 12:23 pm

    I love a mini-van for it’s extra space.

    Reply
  21. AvatarMita says

    August 8, 2018 at 12:35 pm

    I like minivan, and you can attach a baby carrier seat to the stroller.

    Reply
  22. AvatarAnne S says

    August 8, 2018 at 1:15 pm

    Car seat safety is critical! Saving any child’s life with the proper car seat is the most important part of any car!

    Reply
  23. AvatarElizabeth says

    August 8, 2018 at 1:23 pm

    If my Child is not safe than I am not right. I feel if I can be comfortable with my childs safety everything else is good.

    Reply
  24. AvatarElizabeth says

    August 8, 2018 at 1:24 pm

    I love a mini van! So much room for everyone and everything!

    Reply
  25. AvatarDandi D says

    August 8, 2018 at 3:54 pm

    I love the easy access of our minivan!

    Reply
  26. AvatarRachel says

    August 8, 2018 at 4:06 pm

    Car seat safety means to me that you get a carseat that has been proven safe and know how to buckle it in the car the right way.

    Reply
  27. AvatarRachel says

    August 8, 2018 at 4:09 pm

    I don’t have a mini-van but they are great for big families.

    Reply
  28. AvatarRachel says

    August 8, 2018 at 4:11 pm

    I like the strollers that have the car seat attached and has plenty of room for the babies things it needs

    Reply
  29. AvatarJerry Marquardt says

    August 8, 2018 at 9:04 pm

    Access and portability are the key factors in any car seats.

    Reply
  30. AvatarKeri Barhorst says

    August 8, 2018 at 10:13 pm

    Child safety in car seats are number priority they need to be safe

    Reply
  31. AvatarPhilip Lawrence says

    August 8, 2018 at 10:38 pm

    It means the future of my family.

    Reply
  32. AvatarKayla Norris says

    August 9, 2018 at 7:27 am

    Car seat safety means steel frame and CORRECT installation and buckled in properly every time.

    Reply
  33. AvatarKayla Norris says

    August 9, 2018 at 7:28 am

    I would love a mini van when my kids are a little older for ease of getting in and out. For now I am going to want my infant in the middle seat

    Reply
  34. AvatarKayla Norris says

    August 9, 2018 at 7:29 am

    Two favorite stroller features in a stroller is one hand easy fold and large canopy for sun shade.

    Reply
  35. AvatarDandi D says

    August 9, 2018 at 12:55 pm

    I love how easy it is to get the kids in and out of the van!

    Reply
  36. AvatarJean Millsap says

    August 9, 2018 at 3:36 pm

    I love ’em for all the reasons in this article!!

    Reply
  37. AvatarPatricia Hoffmeister says

    August 9, 2018 at 7:13 pm

    My boys grew up without car seats. They survived, but I feel so blessed that my granddaughters are protected.

    Reply
  38. AvatarPatricia Hoffmeister says

    August 9, 2018 at 7:16 pm

    A minivan would have been nice when my sons were little, but my youngest son does have a minivan for my granddaughters

    Reply
  39. AvatarPatricia Hoffmeister says

    August 9, 2018 at 7:18 pm

    Folding and unfolding has to be easy

    Reply
  40. AvatarTina Alexander says

    August 9, 2018 at 8:28 pm

    The safety of a car seat is of the utmost importance. A car seat is definitely an item that should be researched and compared before it is purchased.Brand and price shouldn’t be the selling point.

    Reply
  41. AvatarTina Alexander says

    August 9, 2018 at 8:54 pm

    I love the over-sized canopy! Sunlight, wind, and rain, etc. can be aggravating to a child. Having a shield will make the stroll much more relaxing for the child.

    Reply
  42. AvatarTina Alexander says

    August 9, 2018 at 9:08 pm

    I’ve never had a minivan, but now that I have two younger kids plus twin grand kids…I think it
    might be time to think about it.

    Reply
  43. AvatarMichele Pineda says

    August 9, 2018 at 11:04 pm

    I love minivans because they provide a growing family with enough room and space in the vehicle. The only thing that makes me a bit nervous is I am used to smaller cars so this is a challenge at first driving it.

    Reply
  44. Avatarkathy Persons says

    August 10, 2018 at 6:22 am

    Easy to unfold~

    Reply
  45. AvatarDandi D says

    August 10, 2018 at 10:07 am

    I love how much cargo space our minivan has!

    Reply
  46. Avatarkathy Persons says

    August 11, 2018 at 6:26 am

    I love how easy ours to get kids in and out of

    Reply
  47. AvatarDandi D says

    August 11, 2018 at 7:35 am

    I love how every feature in our van seems to be made perfectly for moms of young kids!

    Reply
  48. AvatarMichele Pineda says

    August 11, 2018 at 4:35 pm

    I like riding in a mini van but the gas consumption is more than my car, so that is one minus when it comes to a mini van for long trips, even though it is more spacious.

    Reply
  49. AvatarMichele Pineda says

    August 11, 2018 at 4:55 pm

    A sturdy stroller with space for storage is a must have when walking with a baby or toddler.

    Reply
  50. Avatarkathy Persons says

    August 12, 2018 at 6:52 am

    I love how easy it is to get things in and out

    Reply
  51. AvatarPatricia C says

    August 12, 2018 at 2:47 pm

    Minivans can hold a lot of stuff. I like how you can push the seats down and pick up lumber for outdoor projects

    Reply
  52. AvatarDandi D says

    August 13, 2018 at 9:42 am

    I love the kid-friendly features like 2 DVD players and pull up shades on the windows!

    Reply
  53. AvatarJ.C. says

    August 14, 2018 at 1:28 am

    I remember family outings as a kid. We, the kids, had more fun in the mini van. Ours was a Toyota, and the second row of seats pivoted so we could face each other. Sometimes it was a good thing, sometimes not, but we have fond memories of that van.

    Reply
  54. AvatarDandi D says

    August 14, 2018 at 8:07 am

    I love how comfortable and convenient our minivan is!

    Reply
  55. Avatarlatanya says

    August 14, 2018 at 8:31 am

    That my child is safe from impact, it is the right size for her age and height, materials are well made, optimal performance.

    Reply
  56. Avatarlatanya says

    August 14, 2018 at 8:34 am

    we have a van and I love the space

    Reply
  57. Avatarlatanya says

    August 14, 2018 at 8:37 am

    I like if a stroller is easy to fold up and ability to unpack with ease as well as comfortable for my child

    Reply
  58. AvatarMichele Pineda says

    August 14, 2018 at 9:48 pm

    One big plus about a mini van is the comfort level, and the features such as built in DVD players which keep the little ones busy so you can focus on driving.

    Reply
  59. AvatarRosanne says

    August 15, 2018 at 12:03 am

    Car seat safety means infants and children surviving what an adult would not.

    Reply
  60. AvatarRosanne says

    August 15, 2018 at 12:04 am

    I’ve always loved having a minivan because I am higher up in the drivers seat meaning better visibility

    Reply
  61. AvatarRosanne says

    August 15, 2018 at 12:06 am

    My favorite stroller feature are the easily replaceable parts

    Reply
  62. AvatarDandi D says

    August 15, 2018 at 7:28 am

    One thing I like is not having to bend over over duck down to put my children in a car seat!

    Reply
  63. AvatarAubrey Scott Daniels says

    August 15, 2018 at 11:37 am

    Car seat safety keeps my children safely in the seat during travel. If there were to be an accident it would protect them!

    Reply
  64. AvatarAubrey Scott Daniels says

    August 15, 2018 at 11:39 am

    Car seat safety keeps my children safely in their seats!

    Reply
  65. AvatarElle says

    August 15, 2018 at 12:34 pm

    Minivans are very practical when you have kids but I prefer a roomier sedan or SUV.

    Reply
  66. AvatarElle says

    August 15, 2018 at 12:35 pm

    I love how lightweight the stroller is and how easy it is to fold and put away.

    Reply
  67. AvatarRajee Pandi says

    August 15, 2018 at 3:02 pm

    love the car seat design is approved, it’s tested out in the Sled Lab using ATDs, or anthropomorphic devices, which are commonly known as crash test dummies.

    Reply
  68. AvatarRajee Pandi says

    August 15, 2018 at 3:05 pm

    we love the spacious in our minivan

    Reply
  69. AvatarRajee Pandi says

    August 15, 2018 at 3:07 pm

    favorite feature is ON THE MOVE

    One-Hand, Quick Fold

    Allows you to store the stroller in no time and get on with your day.

    Reply
  70. AvatarLisa V. says

    August 15, 2018 at 9:29 pm

    I am a grandma, a car safety means the world to me to protect my baby.

    Reply
  71. AvatarLeslie Davis says

    August 15, 2018 at 10:27 pm

    It means making sure the seat is installed correctly.

    Reply
  72. AvatarLaurie Emerson says

    August 15, 2018 at 11:23 pm

    I love minivans. We just bought one last year and I don’t know what I would do without it!

    Reply

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